Flirty truth or dare questions

The Regular level of Lila: flirting out loud. Bolder questions, compliments you would not say otherwise and dares that stay at a hand or a long look. Good for friends who know each other, or a room where something might start. Sam stands in for whoever the dare picks.

Regularflirty, for friends

Truth

  1. What is the most reckless thing you have done for attention?
  2. When did you know something was over before you said so?
  3. What do you find attractive that you would never admit sober?
  4. Who was the biggest mistake and would you repeat it?
  5. What is the most you have changed for someone?
  6. Have you ever wanted someone precisely because you should not?
  7. What is your worst habit in relationships?
  8. When did you last lie to keep someone interested?
  9. What is the boldest thing someone has said to you?
  10. Who here would you be dangerous with?
  11. What is something you did once that surprised even you?
  12. Have you ever stayed for the wrong reason?
  13. What would make you break your own rules?
  14. Who is the one person you would answer at 3am?
  15. What is a compliment that would make you rethink everything?
  16. Have you ever wanted two things you could not have at once?
  17. What is the most you have risked for a night out?
  18. What is something you want that you have never asked for?
  19. Who here reads you the best, and is that a problem?
  20. What would your last ex say about you in one sentence?
  21. Have you ever pretended to be over someone?
  22. What is the most attractive thing someone can do?
  23. When were you last genuinely nervous to text someone?
  24. What is a red flag you would ignore for the right person?
  25. Who is the best decision you ever made?
  26. What have you done that you would only tell one person?
  27. What is the most honest thing anyone has said to you?
  28. When did you last want someone to make the first move?
  29. What is something about you that surprises people later?
  30. Have you ever regretted being honest about how you felt?
  31. What is your most-repeated mistake?
  32. Who here would you want to see how you really are?
  33. What would you do if your last ex walked in right now?
  34. What is the fastest you have fallen for someone?
  35. What is something you have kept that you should have thrown away?
  36. When did you last say yes when you meant no?
  37. What is a story about you that got exaggerated?
  38. What would make you leave right now, and who with?
  39. Have you ever wanted to be caught?
  40. What is the kindest thing an ex ever did?
  41. What do you need that you find hard to say out loud?
  42. Who has had the biggest effect on you in the shortest time?
  43. What is the boldest thing you have ever initiated?
  44. When did you last completely misread a situation?
  45. What is something you would only do on holiday?
  46. Who here have you underestimated?
  47. What is the truest thing you could say about yourself right now?
  48. What is the most you have ever wanted something you could not have?
  49. Who here do you find hardest to read?
  50. What would someone have to say to stop you leaving?
  51. What is the most intense conversation you have had this year?
  52. When did you last do something purely because it felt good?
  53. What is something about you that people misread constantly?
  54. Who was the hardest person to say no to?
  55. What have you forgiven that you said you never would?
  56. When did someone see straight through you?
  57. What is the boldest thing you have done sober?
  58. Who here would you take advice from about your love life?
  59. What is the most flattering thing you have overheard about yourself?
  60. When did you last change your mind about someone completely?
  61. What is a moment you replay more than you should?
  62. What would make you say yes to something you always say no to?
  63. Who has known exactly what to say to you?
  64. What is something you have wanted to ask someone here?
  65. When were you last completely out of your comfort zone with someone?
  66. What is the truest compliment you could give someone here?
  67. Who in this room would you say yes to if they asked tonight?
  68. What is your biggest turn-off?
  69. Have you ever been caught doing something you should not have?
  70. What is a message you deleted before sending and why?
  71. Who was the hardest person to get over?
  72. What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you?
  73. Have you ever liked someone your friend was seeing?
  74. What is the riskiest thing you have done for someone you liked?
  75. When did you last flirt with someone and regret it?
  76. Who here would you pick for a fake relationship and why?
  77. What is the longest you have gone talking to someone before meeting?
  78. What is your most embarrassing dating app story?
  79. Have you ever gone back to someone you swore you would not?
  80. Who is the one that got away?
  81. What is the worst thing you have done to an ex?
  82. Have you ever been the reason a couple broke up?
  83. What is something you have lied about to seem more experienced?
  84. Who here do you think would be the best kisser?
  85. What is your type, honestly, not the version you tell people?
  86. What is the most jealous you have ever been?
  87. Have you ever kept talking to someone you should have blocked?
  88. What is the boldest message you have ever sent?
  89. Who was your first real crush and do they know?
  90. What is something you would only admit in a room like this?
  91. Have you ever pretended to be single?
  92. What is the fastest you have known something would not work?
  93. What is a compliment that always works on you?
  94. Who here would you trust with your phone unlocked for an hour?
  95. What is the most spontaneous thing you have done with someone?
  96. Have you ever had feelings for a friend and said nothing?
  97. What is a rule you have broken for the right person?
  98. What do you notice first about someone?
  99. What is the worst place you have been on a date?
  100. Have you ever been in love with two people at once?
  101. What is something about your last relationship you never told anyone?
  102. Who here is most likely to break a heart?
  103. What is the most attention you have got from one outfit?
  104. Have you ever regretted saying no to someone?
  105. What is the strangest place you have kissed someone?
  106. What is your biggest red flag that you actually know about?
  107. Who here would you go on a road trip with, just the two of you?
  108. What is something you did once and would never repeat?
  109. Have you ever kept a photo you should have deleted?
  110. What is the most honest thing you could say about your love life?
  111. Who in this room have you thought about more than you should?

Dare

  1. Whisper in the ear of Sam which part of them you like looking at most.
  2. Swap seats so you sit next to Sam, and hold their hand until the next card.
  3. Stand as close to Sam as you dare and tell them what you find most attractive about them.
  4. Look Sam up and down, slowly, then say exactly one word.
  5. Swap one accessory with Sam and wear theirs for the next two cards.
  6. Do your best slow, over-the-top catwalk across the room.
  7. Whisper your best line in the ear of Sam.
  8. Hold eye contact with Sam for twenty seconds while you both try not to smile.
  9. Give the group your most seductive reading of the last text message you received.
  10. Show the group how you dance when nobody is watching and you feel attractive.
  11. Describe your ideal kiss to Sam in full detail, without touching.
  12. Bite your lip and hold the smoulder for ten seconds while everyone watches.
  13. Do a body roll. Then do it again, slower.
  14. Say the name of Sam the way you would say it late at night.
  15. Give a thirty second toast to your own best physical feature.
  16. Show the group the face you make when you see someone attractive across the room.
  17. Sam restyles one thing about your outfit however they like.
  18. Tell Sam where you would take them at 2am tonight.
  19. Whisper a secret to Sam that the rest of the group never gets to hear.
  20. Do your best impression of yourself flirting badly.
  21. Look Sam in the eyes and say one thing you want, anything at all.
  22. Kiss the back of the hand of Sam, then turn it over and kiss the palm.
  23. Hold the wrist of Sam and take their pulse. Say the number out loud.
  24. Lick your finger slowly while holding eye contact with Sam.
  25. Say your last dirty thought out loud, as politely as you can.
  26. Tell Sam what you would say if you had one try and no consequences.
  27. Let Sam ask the one question you have been dreading.
  28. Whisper to Sam the last thought you had about them.
  29. Rank everyone here by who you would text first at 2am.
  30. Describe your ideal first date with someone in this room.
  31. Let Sam read one message thread of their choosing.
  32. Say the most honest thing you can about your last relationship.
  33. Let the group write a message you send to your ex.
  34. Tell Sam what you would change about how you met.
  35. Give Sam a compliment you would only give in the dark.
  36. Say which card tonight you hoped nobody would draw.
  37. Let Sam decide who you sit next to for the rest of the night.
  38. Tell the group your type using only people in films.
  39. Hold eye contact with Sam while answering one question.
  40. Say out loud the thing you were about to keep to yourself.
  41. Let the group ask Sam one question about you.
  42. Describe the last time you were genuinely wanted.
  43. Give Sam your honest first impression, unedited.
  44. Text someone the word "honestly" and nothing else.
  45. Say which two people here have the most tension and why.
  46. Tell Sam something you noticed about them tonight.
  47. Let Sam pick a truth you cannot refuse.
  48. Confess the most flattering thing you have ever believed about yourself.
  49. Say the nicest lie anyone ever told you.
  50. Let the group decide one contact you message tonight.
  51. Tell Sam what you think they are hiding.
  52. Say which of your standards you have quietly dropped.
  53. Describe yourself the way someone who wanted you would.
  54. Let Sam give you a rule you must follow for three cards.
  55. Give Sam thirty seconds of undivided attention and no talking.
  56. Tell the group the last thing that genuinely made you nervous.
  57. Say who here you would trust with the worst thing about you.
  58. Let the group vote on your most attractive quality and react to it.
  59. Describe the moment you knew you were in trouble with someone.
  60. Tell Sam one thing you would never say sober.
  61. Tell Sam what you would want them to say to you right now.
  62. Say the name you almost said and stopped yourself.
  63. Let the group decide one thing you must be honest about tonight.
  64. Describe Sam the way you would to a friend who asked about them.
  65. Say what you were hoping this card would make you do.
  66. Let Sam decide how honest your next three answers have to be.
  67. Say the compliment you have been sitting on all night.
  68. Describe the type of person you keep going back to.
  69. Tell Sam what you would do with one hour alone with them, keep it clean.
  70. Say which card tonight got closest to the truth.
  71. Give Sam a genuine reason someone would fall for them.
  72. Confess the last time you thought about someone in this room.
  73. Let the group ask you the question you are least prepared for.
  74. Tell Sam the thing everyone else already knows about how you feel.
  75. Say who here you would want on your side in a crisis, and why that matters.
  76. Tell the group the most honest sentence you have said all night.
  77. Call the last person you flirted with, say one nice thing, then hang up.
  78. Change your display name to whatever Sam picks, for the rest of the night.
  79. Say your next three sentences straight into the eyes of Sam, whatever they are about.
  80. Take a photo with Sam that would make people ask questions.
  81. Speak only in questions until it is your turn again.
  82. Stand in front of a mirror and flirt with yourself for twenty seconds.
  83. Sit next to Sam for the next three cards.
  84. Read out the most recent message from your favourite contact.
  85. Describe your ideal night with someone, keeping it vague.
  86. Say the boldest thing you have ever said to someone, out loud.
  87. Hold hands with Sam for one full song.
  88. Rate everyone here out of ten. You must justify the lowest.
  89. Tell Sam something you have thought about them but never said.
  90. Let Sam decide your next dare.
  91. Reenact your best flirting attempt on Sam.
  92. Show the group the last photo you sent to anyone.
  93. Say who here you would have picked in a different life.
  94. Send a voice message to someone saying you were thinking of them.
  95. Give Sam your phone for one minute, unlocked.
  96. Describe the last time you were genuinely nervous around someone.
  97. Whisper your type to Sam and let them tell the group if it fits anyone here.
  98. Do your best attempt at seducing a houseplant.
  99. Tell the group the nicest thing an ex ever said about you.
  100. Let Sam write your next message to anyone.
  101. Say which two people here would be the best match and why.
  102. Give the most convincing fake proposal to Sam.
  103. Reveal a photo of an ex to the group.
  104. Let the group choose one contact for you to unblock or unfollow.
  105. Say something you would only admit at 3am.
  106. Tell the group your most honest thought from the last ten minutes.

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